ok frank, i see in your profile you are a doctor. it was a doctor who introduced us to aruba. 7 years? med school? if so, lecture from friend of several doctors. go there, get off the plane, leave the title in philly, and never put anything fancier than shorts and sandals on that body. oh and don't allow the grin to leave your face the entire vacation, lol.

you DO need that vacation more than most of us.